Symptoms that he has a crush on you By Maria Veronica Capistrano

29 Aug

When a guy friend recently acts strangely from the way he used to be, does he pops up more often and aggregates you on a daily basis? Or does he flutters with shyness and take a distance from you but still you always caught him staring at you? What could be the reason his acting like this? Is he just into drugs and tries to flirt you or just being friendly? These questions usually appears in a girls’ mind when in doubt towards an opposite sex s’ feelings. Of course we don’t want to assume and misunderstand these signs whether they’re just being friendly or he’s already on to something, so here are a few signs / symptoms to predict whether he likes you just a friend or he has a crush on you.

When you smile! He smiles.

See that sparks in his eyes? Though he had been scolded throughout the day, he will still manage to fix a bright smile on you! Meaning, when they find things that always make you laugh or smile, they are going to do everything in their power to make you laugh again. So bringing up a movie or a joke or an incident with your friend is a way to see if you will smile again. A Guy loves it when you smile so do it often. Smiling a lot can make guys fall for you; just don’t smile like you are mentally challenged.

I see it in your Eyes.
Yes, the eyes. Our eyes are very expressive. Some says you can read one’s soul through it. That’s why he stares at you a lot! Because his trying to read you.  Or maybe, he is just mesmerized by your presence!
Be aware of your faults in his eyes. He finds your quirks charming—the fact that you snort when you start laughing hard, or how when you eat. Your food cannot be touching each other on the plate fills him with inexplicable feelings of happiness. You say things that make you different from the others and this is one of the things that make you so attractive to him.

Notice also his behavior if he turns his whole body to speak to you intently rather just to hear you in an earshot distance. For an instance, he will face towards you. Not just his face, but his whole body will be turned towards you. Sometimes his legs will be spread apart to show that he likes you and that he is comfortable around you.

Another scenario is this one. Depending on his confidence level, he could stare straight into your eyes which he most likely does; to see if you can hold his gaze. I’ve been told about what guys do when they are trying to find out if you like him. They claim that when you look away, you’re interested. This is so dumb because honestly, if someone was just awkwardly staring in my eyes, I would look away to try to get them to stop even if I didn’t like them. So it doesn’t have too much logic either….maybe that’s just the guys I know. The other type is the one that can’t seem to look into your eyes for more than a second. He tries to, but can’t. So his eyes flutter down and then back into your eyes. This shows that you make him nervous. If he doesn’t like you, he will make a normal amount of eye contact all the time. Only you can really decide what’s normal and what is not.

Prolonging the time when he is with you

Do you notice that when you are in a group conversation, he rather gives you this private chat and speaks to you a lot?
Calls and text you more often than others, prolonged phone calls and chats you though his questions are lame . . . even give efforts to see you on weekends though very unnecessary. Aside from that, he chooses your company more than his friends.
The bond between a man and his boys is sacred to him just as your bond with our best friends is important to us. So if he chooses to spend time with you over them consistently then this says something. He enjoys your company and has fun with you. More than that, he looks forward to seeing you, and it doesn’t matter what the two of you do as long as he gets to spend time with you; in fact, those long walks you like so well are okay with him too. He now finds that when he is not with you, he is thinking about you constantly.

A simple touch means a lot.

Notice his interest in touching and being touched. Touch is an important sign of interest in a developing relationship and you can assess interest both by observing how he touches you and how he reacts to you touching him. If he’s keen on you, he might put his hand on yours when he laughs, he might gently brush his leg against yours but won’t move it away again, or he may hug you for small things, such as greeting you, expressing emotions when telling a story or just because you “look like you need a hug.” On the other hand, consider touching him to see what happens––a gentle brush of your hand against his neck, a hold of his forearm with your hand, or running your fingers across his hand after joking with him about something. He’s interested in you if he responds to it and doesn’t flinch away or if he moves his hand to stay on yours or on your arm or leg. On the hand, if he tenses up or moves away his hand, he’s not interested.

As u wish my lady.

Meaning as you wish he does.

Try asking him the hardest thing you can ask that a plain guy friend would rarely do if he is just a simple friend to you. Try asking him to carry your bag, buy you food, get this book to the library etc. and he does what you ask him. You just got him. Now I am not talking about the chicks who are manipulating guys for rent money. That’s another it. I am talking about when you ask him to do things for you that he do.

He Remember Things You Say

And make it remarkable…

They remember things like where you hang out and work, your favorite food or the first thing that you have ate with him. For an instance, two weeks ago you mentioned that you’ve always wanted to learn how to draw, and he brings it up when you’re chatting. Maybe he remembers that your favorite color is violet or that you’re deathly afraid of ghost. In any case, if he’s paying attention to little details like this, he’s probably into you. Other guys would always ask you all kinds of questions about your interests likes and dislikes. This is a solid sign that the man likes you and wants to know more about you so he can take the relationship to the next level.He is curious to know more about you.

His friend knows…

If they know he’s interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you’re around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Study their reactions to your presence––do they smile? Do they turn to him? Do they smirk in a way that suggests they know something that you don’t?

Be careful if a friend of his makes suggestions that a guy likes you but all of the other indications tell you otherwise. Sometimes friends have reasons of their own for ensuring that any chances of you getting together are ruined, including catapulting you into making a fool of yourself.

Here is a recommend video to watch!


Signs to look for to know when a guy likes you:

  1. He will make eye contact with you, then look away when your eyes meet.
  2. He always be willing to help you or do you favors (like rides home, or physical work)
  3. He will always look for you in a crowd, then when he finds you will act like he doesn’t see you
  4. He will laugh at all your jokes/will try to make you laugh.
  5. He talks to his friends about you
  6. He mentions activities that you are interested in so there is a chance for you two to do them together.
  7. He will always find a reason to talk to you or touch you in any way.
  8. He pokes fun at you, but in a nice way
  9. He seems genuinely interested in what you have to say.
  10. He remembers little things that you’ve talked about before a long time ago, and brings them up in conversations to let you know that he remembered.
  11. He will always stare at you, and your friends may notice it too.
  12. When you are talking with him and your friends, he will only comment on something that you say, or will look at you whenever he speaks.
  13. He starts acting nicer when you’re around him
  14. He says “yes” to all the things you ask him to do
  15. He treats you differently to other girls (He will make you feel special)
  16. He looks at you a lot every time you smile or laugh
  17. He finds any excuse to touch you or sit next to you
  18. If you flirt with a friend of his when he can see, and he looks jealous or automatically flirts back
  19. He asks about you to your friends when you’re not around
  20. He has cute little nicknames for you

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  3. Booster2Chick April 23, 2014 at 8:00 am #

    Thx for the vid 🙂 Its so cute & I finally realized, that the boy following me for quite a time has a crush on me !!

  4. alessante September 26, 2015 at 11:52 am #

    Ok, I may need a little l’assitance-des-deiux here, as I have a hunch, but can’t figure this guy out. He own’s a cafe — where he frequently holds ‘new-agey’ events. I sometimes work form there, when convenient, as I work [from home] on my Lenovo.

    He’s a ‘nice-guy’- all around. And everyone in town knows his good and giving nature. He started out by saying “you should come more often”. So, as I entertained that option… and came to ‘events’, I noticed he would not participate if I was there… He’d pretend to work on his laptop/business. One day, he got so “ballsy”, that he ignored my simple order of 2 drinks – iced tea and milk. I wasn’t about to beg’ or ‘nag’ for something so simple, so I went out to a restaurant next door, and got what I needed. He noticed ‘foreign’ cups on my table but said nothing. As my laptop battery died, I settled my account [paying for the 1st tea he did serve me] and he didn’t even look up, texting on his phone to his many needy friend-girls.

    Now, I must admit — I work for a global firm; he runs a local cafe… Could he be intimidated? Idk. At first, we had great conversations, until he got all weird, especially if other people are present.

    So tonight, my martial arts class got canceled, so I went to the Shaman Journey event at his cafe. The Shaman-guy asked me if I “journeyed” before? I said “yes”, at his very first event. He turned to the cafe-owner and asked: “Is this the girl you’ve been talking about?” He said: “No.” While, a lady next to me, turned to me and said: ‘They talked about you.” When it was my turn to talk about my “experience” — he never looked at me, staring into the floor with his head down (only for me). And barely spoke a word to me during the entire 2hrs. And as I was leaving, he was talking to another lady about his roommate, so I placed my last-order glass on the counter, walked passed him, without saying ‘goodbye’.

    At this point, I don’t know If I should: a) cut him off entirely for being a jerk; 2) pretend to ‘hold up’ his establishment for cash [lol, would be fun]; 3) [what I’m leaning towards] – throw his dismissive shit back at him. Now that he won’t see me through the next 30 days… I’ve got some time to assess the situation. Thanks in advance!

    Dear, MVC — please reply.

    Confused, Alessante

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